Bennett Daniel today is your day of birth, and of course I woke up thinking, "Twelve years ago today..."  Per tradition, we sat down to complete your birthday book - doing the interview and adding details for the upcoming celebration.  We went back to re-read.  We remembered the super awesome firetruck cake on your 2nd birthday, and your first pair of skates (thanks for not turning into a hockey player, by the way).  We laughed at the funny things you said as a toddler how you were "actually eating an entire bag of cheetos".    You're like your mama, kid, and our throats got tight and our eyes filled with tears.

On this day, this 12th year, your Daddy and I could not be more proud of the human you are, and the character you display every single day.  You are the most kind and thoughtful kid - the first to help bring in the groceries, hold the door and your sister's hand.  You are wicked smart, and school is important to you.  You set high standards for yourself and those who you surround yourself - but remember to breath when it feels like too much.  Some days it will - but you have the skills and strategies necessary to "just keep swimming".  And, you have us - always and forever and no matter what.

Happy birthday, Monkey.  You're my favorite tween on the planet.